“I think we should take a break.” my wife says.

“Ok, let’s discuss it later.” I reply.

“No, I mean, a break from our relationship…”, she responds.

This was in September 2022.

It was the peak of something I call “relationship HELL”.

But before I tell you more…

Hi, this is Mateo Hani.

You’re on my email list because of 3 possible reasons:

1. You’ve been one of my coaching / hypnotherapy clients
2. You subscribed through my website www.changefor.me in the past
3. You know me from X & you downloaded one of my digital products (Design Your Ideal Version & similar)

But...

I am changing my focus from here on out.

There are things I won’t focus on anymore.

And then there are topics I dedicate myself fully to from now on.

I’ll get to it at the end of this email.

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But first, back to my relationship HELL…

I will never be able to pinpoint the beginning of this hellish period of our relationship.

But I could...

I’d say it started with the grueling 23-hour long birth experience of our daughter.

Which ended in C-section...

Which neither of us wanted.

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It started this period of falling apart, during which we were dealing with

→ cheating

→ addictions

→ ZERO income,

→ moving countries (as if running away from something)

→ COVID lockdown (don’t get me started on that one!)

→ losing 2 unborn babies at once in a miscarriage

→ trust and communication issues

→ & not seeing a future together anymore.

My friend, it was HELL.

So yep, we broke up...

We still lived in the same household.

Still took care of our daughter.

But we were not “together”.

We both desired a romantic relationship.

A partner that we can rely on.

But we didn’t see the future in our current relationship.

So we ended it. (well, actually, my wife did, but I’m so DAMN thankful she did!)

We just didn’t want to “save” something that didn’t work.

We didn’t want to “reset” it either.

But we wanted a second chance.

We wanted The Fresh Start.

So, we dedicated the next 1.5 years to self-improvement. We used every technique and approach we could get our hands on. (hypnosis, NLP, belief change, breathwork, personality tests and MUCH MUCH more…)

But, after all of this…we made it work.

Not only that, we now live in Relationship HEAVEN.

Why do I call it that?

Because the relationship we have now is nothing like what we had before.

The relationship we have now is:

• Exciting
• Abundant of energy
• Supportive, light and peaceful

Sound like a cliché? We don’t care if it does, we’re living it!!!

AND, best of all, we know EXACTLY what worked and we want to share it with all of you!

Since the beginning of 2024, we’ve been putting together everything that worked.

Everything we used to heal the traumas of the past and enter a new phase of our relationship.

Everything that helped us to make it from relationship HELL into HEAVEN.

We now have a step-by-step process we call (you guessed it!):

The Fresh Start

What is it?

It’s a 12-week relationship coaching program we lead with my wife Maia.

We are finally ready to share it with as many people as we can!

First things first, who is this program NOT for?

The Fresh Start is NOT for you, if you:

→ Believe your partner is here to “complete” you (like this poor fella ↓↓↓)

→ Think the state of your current relationship is your partner’s “fault”

→ Don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel for the two of you

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So, who is The Fresh Start for?

It’s for you, if you:

• Are going through a relationship crisis
• Are “stuck” in a relationship without spark
• Find yourself jumping in and out of relationships, never finding “the one”

If this is for you, join the waitlist here: https://mateohani.com/waitlist​

We’re kickstarting the program very soon.

Join and we’ll keep you updated.

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Now, back to my focus from here on out:

In the last 7 years, I focused on trading and trading-related topics.

I won’t do it anymore.

Why, you ask?

I have lost and made millions.

I have had my share of failures and wins.

But none of my wins comes even close to the biggest achievement of my life:

My romantic relationship with my wife Maia. (especially the current version)

Life has meaning you decide to give it.

I am deciding to dedicate my life to helping people to:

→ restart the relationships,

→ enhance the quality of existing ones

→ and most of all, to cultivate the healthy relationships with themselves.

What does it mean for me?

It means that I will focus on these topics:

1. Relationship with yourself
2. Romantic relationships.
3. Conscious parenting.
4. Building friendships.
5. Expanding families.

What does it mean for you? Here are your options as I see them:

OPTION #1: "I DON'T CARE"

If you don’t feel like this is for you, hit the unsubscribe button and I wish you all the best out there!

OPTION #2: "I LOVE IT"

If these topics are close to your heart, reply to this email (or any of the following emails) by 31.05.2024 at the latest.

Reply with “The Fresh Start” (or you can reply with a question, feedback or anything else.)

(If you don’t reply by 31st of May, I’m taking you off this list.)

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Ok, now that this is off my chest, here’s what I promise going forward:

1. My future emails will be MUCH shorter than this one
2. You will receive all the updates about The Fresh Start until we launch (which will happen soon)
3. I will focus on the above topics. My emails will be full of inspiring stories, proven approaches & step-by-step guides. All focused on how to raise quality of your existing relationships.

Sounds fair?

Thought so.

If you got all the way here, thanks a million!

Here’s my invitation to join the waitlist for The Fresh Start once again: https://mateohani.com/waitlist​

Just click the link and rejoice!

All the best

Love.

Mateo

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